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Keeping your love tank full

Who do you belong to? Who belongs to you? It's not as much about the possession, but about where you feel most comfortable. Where do you belong? And who belongs by your side?

Do you ever get tired of walking alone? Have you ever felt the loneliest when you’re standing right next to someone who isn’t “the one”? So why do you keep doing it? Or better yet, what are you prepared to do about it?

Maybe you feel you don’t have the freedom of choice due to the current circumstances in your life. This is known as your reality. You’ve got kids to support and you don’t want to break-up the home. She’s supported you so much that it just wouldn’t be fair to end the relationship. Maybe you’ve just lost that special loving feeling and you’re desperately looking to get it back. What can you do to get yourself back on the right track? You can take a long hard & honest look at your relationship and decide to find the truth, face the reality and then either adjust it to fit your dreams, or give up and live in apathy for the next few years. It’s your choice!

What’s time worth to you? What do you value? Are you living your life, or the life that someone else expects of you? It is not my intention to judge anyone, but simply help them if they are intent on living the relationship they dream of, one that empowers them.

So where do you start? Make an honest assessment of you relationship and determine whether it is serving your purpose or not. If it is serving your purpose, and you want to get more out of it, then make the best of everyday and cherish every moment of the way. Expand and grow on that love by expressing your desire to take the relationship to the next level. There are no limits! Be a creative and free spirit. Use the tools at your disposal, charm & romance her until she’s overwhelmed.. and then keep going! The only limits are those you decide to set. Limits are a measurement which the heart and soul doesn’t recognize. Only your ego knows limits, and it sets these to keep from getting hurt, or from fear of not being able to reach that threshold. Disclaimer, if you haven’t been “over the moon” in your declaration of love & desire for her, I’d suggest you ease into it. You don’t want to scare her off, or worse yet, have her thinking you’ve changed just because you’re covering up another woman in your life.

If it’s not serving our purpose and you want to make a change, then the first thing you need to do is to identify what it is that you want. What kind of relationship or partner do you desire in your life? Are you complete enough in your own love that you can state this? If you are, then close you eyes and relax. Put on a cool & soothing music to help you get into a tranquil state. Now daydream and picture your perfect partner. Don’t concentrate on her physical aspects, but rather the personality traits and personal characteristics of the woman who you’d love to have standing by your side for the rest of your life. What does it feel like? What does it taste like? Give yourself the relationship you deserve. Got that picture in your head? Well then you’re ready to manifest it.

Can you put in the concentrated effort and recoup it from your existing relationship? Are you willing to put in the hard work? If your decision is to move on, then just make sure you know what you’re looking for, and that you’re doing it for all of the right reasons. Set out your strategy, make your list of traits & characteristics and don’t compromise on the non-negotiables. Are you currently single and without a special love interest in your life? Then you can do the same exercise and the key is to be sure of yourself and your determination. The universe will start to send you many candidates and it will test your will to see if you are deserving of the really special one you pictured. Don’t commit yourself immediately, explore if you’re unsure, and be honest with the person you’re about to share your journey with. She is on her own journey and should be treated with the same respect as you would expect for yourself.

Now you’re ready to embark on your journey. You can find here on books, tips, poems, songs and other tools help you along your journey. You can also pose your questions or doubts, share your experiences and find a fun, yet effective way to start, or improve the quality of your relationships.

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